Heard you were retiring

Dear Cousins,

I see by your Christmas cards and letters of 2008 and 2009, that you both have retirement plans--now or soon. Congratulations if that has actually happened. I retired in 2000 and have really enjoyed it. I’m doing a lot of things I had on my PEP list (post employment plan), but the most time consuming, blogging, wasn’t around then. I’ve been a blogger since 2003, and now have 12 blogs. I’m out of control, obviously. But writing and writing workshops were on my list.

My biggest worry about retirement (other than money, of course) was that I had no hobbies. Like my dad in that respect. And we have no grandchildren, which seems to take up the time of most of our friends. But, time certainly hasn’t been a problem. About a year before I retired, I kept a note book in my purse and jotted down things from the local paper that looked interesting. Then, being a librarian, I organized them, and guess what? Everything I liked to do as child floated to the top: writing, drawing/art, reading/research and animals! Whoddathunkit? One of the very last things on this list was “bird watching,” and my colleagues had even given me binoculars for a retirement gift in 2000 when they saw it. But this past summer at Lakeside I joined the bird watching group and volunteered for the Midwest Bird Symposium in September and just loved it. Boy--are those folks committed!!

Together we started an art ministry at our Lutheran church, and I just finished up 10 years with that, but he’s stayed with it. I did take a few years of art lessons, and do participate in art classes during the summer, but that’s been pretty slow. I’m a better artist than most people who try it, but not good enough to suit me! He paints much more than I do, and sold 11 paintings last year.

We have traveled much more than I ever imagined--we go with U. of I. Alumni groups when we can because of the educational component, but have done some on our own too, like an Alaska cruise, Amtrak to California and back, Finland and Russia, and local U.S. stuff with some architects.

Finding a good balance for volunteering hasn’t been easy. I do quite a bit at the church, and served lunch at the senior center and used to visit nursing homes, but I tend to be somewhat of a loner--not much into committees, task forces and groups. So I help out where I can--I don’t think God is keeping a check list of approved agencies--plus, laws are so strict now on what volunteers can do. Just keep a casserole in the freezer, and take it out when needed. No license needed to be neighborly.

I also joined a book club--so I am forced to read fiction, which I rarely did before, although we do all types. I visited a horse show which was on my list, but only one. Those are expensive, but I did get to pet some noses. Genealogy--I’m a dabbler. I need the names and dates of your grandchildren for the database.

So let me know how it’s going--you can always catch up with me at my blog http://collectingmythoughts.blogspot.com